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Sex Education For Couples – A Fun and Practical Approach

Your parents gave you the best sex education for couples and taught you everything you ever needed or wanted to know about sex…..right? Probably not and so most of us are left with allot of experimenting and wondering about our sexuality, especially after we have been with the same partner for any length of time.

I remember a client who came to see me who was feeling confusion about his sexual feelings. At a young age He had been forced to do sexual acts with one of his father’s male friends. The experience left him confused by a sense of needing “affection” from men in that way, even though he was happily married with three kids.

The point is, sex education for couples is more than just about our bodies and the erotica surrounding intercourse. We are all deeply influenced by our peers, the media, and especially our early experiences. Where then do couples get the information and advice they need? Most of us would dearly love to have a wise older person to lean on and bend our ear. That is rare, but there are ancient traditions that focused on mastering sex and intimate arts.

In these teachings are practical and fun techniques that are useful to modern couples. We all want to regain the fire in our relationships and to rediscover the magic of being playmates at sex. You might also discover that adults sex education lessons also instantly improve other aspects of your relationship.

  • For men: imagine having complete control of when you want to ejaculate
  • And for Women: imagine discovering secrets to expand your sexual magic and orgasmic potential. Wouldn’t that be nice? Being able to increase your sexual desire and joy of sex while also extending your orgasmic pleasure.
  • You can both discover how to balance differences in libido.
  • Discover how to explore and expand the amount of sexual pleasure you can experience and bring to each other.
  • Learn how to maintain exciting sexual passion and keep love alive in a committed relationship while managing the stress of life, work and family.

When it comes to sex, reading about it is boring. So When singles and couples see me about sexual issues, I encourage a fun and practical approach to learning more about sex. Having knowledge and wisdom about sex is a true gift to share as a couple and as a peer to others and younger people who may not find the greatest advice elsewhere.

Teachers’ Day – A Day of Significance and Celebration for All Teachers

India celebrates her Teachers’ Day on the 5th September commemorating the significance of the birthday of Dr. Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan. He was a staunch believer of education and was one of the most well-known diplomat, scholar, president of India and above all a teacher. He believed that “teachers should be the best minds in the country”.

When Dr. Radhakrishnan became the president of India in 1962, he was approached by some of his students and friends and they requested him to allow celebrate 5th September, his birthday. In reply to this, Dr. Radhakrishna said, “Instead of celebrating my birthday separately, it would be a proud privilege if September 5th is observed as Teachers’ Day”. Henceforth, the day has been observed as Teachers’ Day in India and this led to its origin.

Teachers’ Day is the occasion to invest quality time with your teachers and it is the day to commemorate the profession of teaching and everyone associated with it. It is the day when students organize activities and cultural programs, to honour and appreciate teachers, so as to focus on bringing teachers and students closer. Moreover, it is the day that is devoted to highlight the hard work put up by the teacher all year long and is a day which is a complete tribute to the teachers all over India.

Right from giving bouquets of flowers, greeting cards and gifts to your favourite teachers, some students also write wonderful poems and messages to their teachers on this day. But there are some students who come up with innovative ideas and ways to celebrate Teachers’ Day.

A few of them while writing messages across to their teachers on this day even admire and leave comment on their teachers beautiful clothes, style or their traits.

Some other modern way to reach your teachers is by sending a message or animated greetings through email, SMS or Facebook with touchy quotes to their teachers.

Besides, in most educational institution, students organize cultural programs which include a skit highlighting student-teacher relationship; mimicry on their teachers showing their facial expressions and actions and a lot of game activities like dumb charades, musical chair or passing a parcel etc.

I must admit that no other profession has the privilege of feeling in an ecstatic state as much as teachers’ profession as each and every teacher feels very special by the warmth and love of their fellow students on this day. This makes us reflect back the great role teachers play in bringing up their students:

From tender age until adulthood, a child can be easily molded in a right way just like clay in a potter’s hand, it is vital to understand that the teacher can shape up his personality by being a role model by nurturing him in school through gentle persuasion. Therefore, it is mandatory for a teacher have both professional competency backed up by a very strong moral background to lead the children during different challenging situations and circumstances encountered in classrooms.

As teacher has a great role to play in a student’s life, it is correct to say they are the people who could create generations altogether. In short, they are in some way the builder of our nation as they are exposed to a mass of students who are the future citizens of our country. Moreover, teachers must inspire them to build into great personality and shape them to contribute to the society by being upstanding citizens of our nation.

Thus for all the hard work, struggles, sacrifice and tolerance put up by the teachers, it is indeed a day to show gratitude, and a day of great opportunity for all of us to make our teachers feel special on this day which is a day for all teachers.

Should University Education Be Free For All?

Education is the most critical and pressing issue for the development of any country and more and more reforms are brought in this sector with the passage of time. No one denies the sheer role and significance of education in making a better nation and a progressive world. Where many people manage to get primary and secondary education, provided free in most of the countries, it is difficult to most in getting themselves equipped with the higher or university education due to the high cost/fee. Hence, there has always been this debate of whether the university education should be free for all.

For most of the people say that it should be free as getting knowledge is a basic right and it should not come with a price tag. Most of the people cannot afford the huge cost of higher education and many of the future Einstein and Marx are wasting their abilities and talents due to the inaccessibility to the universities and university education which makes education a privilege of a particular class instead of everyone’s basic right. When more people get higher education, there will be more jobs available for them and the rate of unemployment will be reduced alleviating the poverty in the society and leading it towards advancement and prosperity. Another argument for the free university education goes with the principle of equality where everyone has a right to have equal opportunity and in making university education free, this principle of equality can be fulfilled in converting it into a reality on pragmatic grounds out of the antique box of theory. If higher education is free, thousands of young boys and girls would be able to get education instead of bearing the burden of part time jobs in fulfilling the university expanses.

There is other side of the coin too and which is not in favor of free university education that brings gargantuan burden on the shoulders of the government.

There is a lot of investment required and the cost of higher education is too high that it becomes indispensable for the people to share some of the burden of the state which does not have ample resources and money for free university education. Though there can be, as there are, more special students loans and scholarships in aid of the students who cannot afford the cost of higher education. Another argument is that if university education is free, there will be a descend in the value of higher education as there will be less money to pay for the professors and staff and many other university resources (related to technical education at higher level). Hence there is a danger of a low quality education once it has been made free for all like water in an ocean.

To conclude, where we can see many hurdles in the way of free university education we can also see the example of Germany in making its higher education free. Much can be learnt from the Germany’s experience or experimentation (hitherto to see) in making university education free for all.